who is responsible for paying for the flower girl dresses? they have already been purchused.?
My BIL is getting married to a girl whose family has more money than my BIL does or anyone in his family. When the bride to be asked to have my daughter as flower girl I told her I was honored & yes as long as things finacially were taken care of after being assured by her we agreed, then hubby asked BIL a few weeks later & he said "don't worry things are taken care of" we are paying for all traveling & lodging expenses (its far away & the rehearsal is a two day before the wedding so we need a hotel room in a expensive city for 3 nights) Now the bride to be is asking hubby & I (through emails) for money to pay for our daughters dress/shoes/hair accs. using the excuse that since they rented a house two months early that they are hard up for extra money. yeah . how do I take care of this without starting family problems (this girl is already on the bad side of most my SIL's) & I have been the one who has been sticking up for her to them since I know how she feels becoming the new SIL.
I don't think its inappropriate for the parents of the flower girl to be responsible for the cost of their child's attire and beauty needs. In most cases, this is usually done. I do think it is unfortunate that you are being asked to cover her costs after it was initially discussed that they would provide for everything. But things come up all the time with weddings. Things become a lot more costly than anticipated. But since the dresses have already been purchased I think you should talk with her about splitting the cost for her dress. And maybe you can pick up the cost for hair with the stylist of your choice or do her hair yourself.
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